Better to Cry Now
From Segregation to Celebration
The Journey of a Gay Black Trailblazer
From the segregated classrooms of the 1950s to the halls of higher education, Geoffrey Newman shares his extraordinary journey as a gay Black educator, artist, and leader — a story of resilience, authenticity, and triumph.
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​Better to Cry Now has been honored with the National Indie Excellence Award for LGBTQIA Non-Fiction, recognizing Geoffrey Newman’s powerful and inspiring contribution to memoir and arts literature.
Welcome and Thank You For Visiting
Hello, I’m Geoffrey Newman — and I’m so glad you’re here.
My life has been devoted to the arts and to building community, a journey that’s given me purpose, joy, and wisdom. I wrote Better to Cry Now to share those lessons — a memoir about resilience, authenticity, and the power of staying true to yourself.
The title comes from something my mother told me: “Better to cry now than later.” Her words have guided me ever since, reminding me that strength begins with honesty.
I invite you to explore the site for insights from my work, upcoming events, and ways to connect. May my story encourage you to find your own path — with courage, compassion, and creativity.
Geoffrey Newman
Upcoming Events
Stay tuned for upcoming readings, book signings, and conversations with Geoffrey Newman as he shares insights from Better to Cry Now and his lifelong work in the arts. New appearances and event details will be added here as they’re announced.
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A Reading & Conversation with Geoffrey Newman & Other Authors
Thursday, November 13, 2025 6 p.m.
In-Person at the Bureau
The LGBT Community Center
208 West 13th Street NYC
& Live Streaming at Youtube.com/@BGSQD
Sign up details TBD